when i was in my college,i had a friend named Ramya,actually we both belong to different departments,but we use to travel in the same train to college,and we were a big gang,giggling and making fun of everybody,we had a great time,Ramya loved a guy and as usual her parents objected her love,whn we were in our final year,they started compelling her to marry a guy of their choice,she refused a lot but nothing did work,her wedding was fixed after our final exams,and there is another thing to share,wen we were in second year she married the guy she loved without her parents knowledge.
One fine day morning she was looking quite upset,wen we asked her she said she was not feeling well,and once we reached college we were behind our own headaches,by afternoon we received a message saying that Ramya passed away,we were so shocked.
The actual scenario was this,usually in our college we dont have a practise of leaving home in noons,that was actually a lonely place ,so particularly grls are never allowd to leave the college by noon,but she have left saying that she is not feeling well,actually she was not feeling well and thats true. So she have left home,wat i guess is she didnt have any idea of dying,as far as i guess she is neither physically nor mentally weak,she is a bold girl and another friend of mine have been in a road side shop which is right in the gate way of the railway station at tat time and she have spoke to him before dropping into railway station.That was a careless mistake,she have crossed the track without noticing tat express and she was jus thrown away,she passed away right at that moment.
Only after her death her dad came to know that she is married,so he didnt even turn up for her funeral,he can never see her again even if he wishes to.......but he refused to see her,hw can a dad be like that? was that right?
I could never ever forget that incident,i couldnt judge it much as i was only 19 at that time,but nw i do think abt that incident,why always parents says "no" fr love marriages,well i do guess that thr are many aspects behind that,so does it mean that love marriage is a offence?
What u people think? jus share it with me,ur comments are most welcome
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you know Actor Surya's dad written a book named " dairy " where he spoken about when a person to love ... it realy true..
do you think the marriage with out the knowledge of parents is right..?
who seeded the problem should cultivate it..!
But i accept, not taking care of own doughter's funeral was peek of anger...
The same incident happen to my friend, he was married a girl with out knowledge of thier parents.. and FATE eated him..
as a friends we kept the message with ourself and collected the papers from his house and returned to his fiance
u r right, love is not crime...
but the time of their love makes it crime...
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